You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches - Dita Von Teese (in other words you can't please everybody.
Grief never ends, but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith. It is the price of love. Grief is the price of love.
To lose someone you love is to alter your life forever. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. This hole in your heart is the shape of the one you lost - no one else can fit it. I miss you Granddaddy.