When you don't do what narcissist want anymore they will tell you that you've changed. When in reality you just got tired of their crap and finally stood up for yourself! Hahaha and became the best person that they wish they still had!
Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent. A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and wants. People shouldn't pretend they are the best parent when someone else is raising their child