Gray area rape is rape. If you are forced to agree, it is still rape.<<saying being pressured to consent to sex isn't rape is like saying the cashier participated in the robbery because he gave the money to the robber when threatened with a gun.
Don't tell me to get over it, I know I should be. But my depression makes it worse it replays things over and over in my head. And I'm drowning and I need you and you're not there and I'm my own fighting with all of these thoughts inside of me.