When I was a boy of 14 my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21 I was astonished by how much he'd learned in 7 years - mark twain - parenting, school, adult
I used too but then in the process I’ve hurt myself more so show kindness and empathy but that’s it. Loving the people who doesn’t love you will only break you. Sometimes we have to be tough to show them that we can’t just be stepped on after we show them and gave them our love.