And sometimes, you pin stuff and make snide comments, smile at the beautiful things in the world, say thank you for all the wonderful things people do, and send out love to everyone who isn't free from suffering.
It's often all too difficult to explain ourselves, as the vast ends to our minds can hardly be put into words to ourself, so how can we be expected to enlighten others of such? What they understand, seems to be all they get.
Detaching with love is an important goal in Al-Anon recovery. When this is a struggle, codependent behaviors like people pleasing and controlling others make detachment more difficult. Click the image to read more about codependency and how to heal it.