This should not be such a lightbulb! And it's no wonder everyone thinks my man is a flirt. He is genuinely nice to everyone, and in today's world, manners mean he has targeted "said person" for personal gain. No not for good men. Not for real men!
Yes, he cleaned up nicely not because I made him but because he wanted to be a better man for himself, for me, and for his family. I just helped him along the way. So I didn't polish a piece of shit, I shined a diamond in the rough.