With everything that has happened to you you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.
One of the things to do in Oahu is to get a picture of the Hawaii surfing icon Duke Kahanamoku statue with a lei!) When staying at Waikiki hotels, there's a good chance you'll see it every day when going to Waikiki beach or heading for food, restaurants