One of my favorite books describes the situation very well.
The 14 Most Romantic Lines From Famous Love Letters (PHOTOS)
My favorite quote in the whole world :)
Yup not that i gave up i have poured my heart and soul ino this. I just realized and paid attention to the signs. Better to try to protect ones self and heart before you get kicked out again and replaced.
Watch Tom Hiddleston Sing Karaoke in a Car & Try Not to Smile