you eventually learn to trust no one. Being alone sucks but at least you don't have to worry about being let down or hurt again.when you are alone you aren't ever really alone because God is there and he will never let you down or hurt you
Be careful who you vent to. A listening ear is also a potential running mouth.… Choose to share personal details only with few trustworthy & close people. That way you avoid sharing to someone who will go about Gossiping about you.