Weathered wood finish on new wood: sand wood, paint with white latex paint, sand (the barer spots will "take" the stain more than the painted part) then wipe dark walnut stain until you get the look you want, seal with polyacrylic. Instructions on link.
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DIY BARN WOOD :: She stained a piece of scrap board with Minwax white tint base wood stain in Slate and realized it was a bit too dark for her liking so she mixed the stain with water which made(Mix Wood Grey)
Table like this but I don't want to DIY. Tristao Jensen Wood Stain with vinegar and black tea! Rustic X Console INGREDIENTS: One "pillow" of extra-fine steel wool 1 Gallon of cheap white vinegar A box of harsh, cheap black tea (maybe)