Yep, why keeping a friendly relationship with a gaijin woman of your age when you can have a young chick in your bed ? Now you also show disrespect to this young woman and I hope she will open her eyes soon.
Just because a person doesn't put hands on you, that doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect, & also hurtful words. Don't settle for emotional abuse thinking it's ok because it's not physical.