Its good and important for kids to help and feel needed! Use these age appropriate chore lists to create a chore chart for your kids. I like to pick 1 or 2 new chores each year to add my kids’ responsibilities. There are lots of good ideas here!
Cleaning House: A Mom's Twelve-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement by Kay Hill--would this work with Kyle? Wills Wyma, Great book about establishing a sense of responsibility in your children. LOVE this book!