Sometimes people grow up in really toxic environments, and don't realise what's wrong for a very long time. This post isn't about happy families, or helping out people where there is mutual, unconditional love. This is about the families that are selfish.
A few people have said to me that I worry about the future too much and that I need to enjoy the present. There's a lot to be said for living in the moment. But I don't want to sacrifice my future security for stupid stuff now.