"Accept the fact that some people didn't intend to let you down. Their best is just less than you expected." ~Thelma Davis <-- Never thought of it like that before. Wow, that really reframes one's perspective.
Grieving is scary, but having a frown to sit silently beside you.that makes it less scary. (Scary Shit Series - Stillbirth — a really sad topic but one that's really important. Give it a read so you can support anyone that goes through it.