Your joy factor will remain constant as you are continually refining your ideas of what you want, and that's why it is so important for you to get everybody else out of the equation. They've got their own game going on; they don't understand your game.
Control your emotions Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions. — Unknown Author If you allow someone to dictate how you feel everyday, you will be unfulfilled.
Never mind what is. Imagine it the way you want it to be, so that your vibration is a match to your desire. When your vibration is a match to your desire, all things in your experience will gravitate to meet that match every time ⊰❁⊱ Abraham