This is so true for me. I will give endless chances to people. But if I give up on someone, it will take a lot outta me. If I give up on someone, I hope they realize that they lost someone who really cared for them
Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important.
When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn't healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits - anything that kept me small. My judgement called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving. Self love is the best love.