Some broken hearts are hard to heal. Losing someone you love is very difficult for everyone and everyone heals in their own way. I can only give this advice to those I love. It's the best way I think to help them mend their broken hearts.
This made me wonder if I've been tested deeply? Probably not yet, so far my faith hasn't cost me much in my life. But I hope I can be rooted so much in Christ that when trials do come I can find peace and joy in them.