"If you've told a child a thousand times & the child still does not understand it is not the child who is the slow learner." again, you have to understand the deepest heart of your chidren, feel what they feel.
18 Ways to Answer when a kid says I Hate You - Not sure I agree with all of them (saying them anyway),but most of these seem pretty good. "You don't hate me, you don't like what I am telling you. There is a big difference.