That is so important. Love is never deceitful. It isn't deceitful to your spouse. And it isn't deceitful to your children. If there is deceit in a relationship, it is not true love, rather it is self-serving and selfish for personal gain.
So many people assume and think they know what life with Fibromyalgia is like, but what they think is usually extremely far from the reality of living with it. So few, that do not have this illness, will ever know the truth.