Many people mix opinion with fact. Unless you search for the facts, you're just repeating another person's opinion - and most likely stretching the truth (like a secret and passing it on). And, perception is not always reality. Get the facts yourself!
"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.
Normality is a paved road: it's comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it. - Vincent van Gogh, Dutch Post-Impressionist painter who is among the most famous and influential figures in the history of Western art.