read Gods word, give Him thanks, make your requests known, sit in silence, and become receptive to the still small voice that can be heard even in a loud room. But first you need to have silence to become familiar with the voice.
Don't expect people to understand your direction in life, when God didn't give them your vision. You're going to know when it's from God. No matter who tries to run from it. God sais no. Not this time. And removes EVERY person that gets in the way.