Reminder: You don't have to rebuild a relationship with everyone you've forgiven. Just because you are at peace doesn't mean they're not still toxic.
This is absolutely true. I work retail and had a guy tell me that if my top button of my uniform shirt wasn’t buttoned, he wouldn’t be able to talk to me because he’d be distracted by my cleavage. He also said that “if a woman wears a skirt or dress even slightly above the knee, they shouldn’t ask why they get raped later.” I had to walk away.
The parents of Newtown only lost their children, but Bob Davis might have to fill out some forms at a gun show. That's a waste of precious time - time that could be spent at people who have lost their children.