Have a prayer journal for each kid - write prayers for that child - over the time you have created a memory journal with your hopes, fears, challenges, and love all recorded. add to their journals all ready.
This is my "diary " or what I like to call it , a journal. I like this journal because in here I write all my personal things. In here, I write about Rodrick and the horrible things he does to me. This is why I put my journal on my board.