Kekere Kan Ènìyàn (Little People) by Fernando Vieira
Personally this is what I want to do. People care so much about a woman's hair and how it looks. It's hair. It's not living, it's not breathing, if I cut it, it won't majorly impact your life. So don't tell me what to do with my own hair.
Fits with some of my experiences as a babysitter/nanny. Actually communicating with the kids yields much better results than ordering or hauling them around.
Gender roles are learned not inherently known. It's fine to identify as whatever gender. Don't ridicule people for how they express it. << "gender roles are learned not inherently known" yES
In any situation assuming things is never right especially when you have been told you are wrong and continue to assume. If she can't read it she would just return it, no harm done?>> No harm done!