"The only thing standing between you and your goal is the BULLSHIT story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it!" <--If you want a change bad enough, you'll set your mind to it and aspire to reach that goal/change/outcome!
I am strong because I am weak. I am beautiful because I know my flaws. I am a lover because I am a fighter. I am fearless because I have been afraid. I am wise because I have been foolish. and I can laugh because I’ve known sadness.