I'm probably not making any sense." So true. I'm one of those types of people who only share personal details with those I trust. It's tough to explain things when you're not used to doing it that often!
This is the problem I have with the whole "let's pray thing" I get it, prayer can and does help, I've experienced it. But that doesn't mean you should be idle. That doesn't mean you SHOULDNT DO SOMETHING. PRAYER SHOILD NEVER BE AN OUT. YOU DO BOTH, AND IF YOU CANT HELP YOU PRAY HARD.