The time just before we fully recover is the trickiest time for us, because it's the time when we still feel the emotional pull, and it's the time when we need gentle but firm parenting from ourselves to bring us back to the reality of the situation.
I thought about you today and I didn't want you. Thinking about you doesn't make me happy anymore. It does excite me. I don't feel the need to hear your voice anymore or see your face ever again. (I Want A Divorce)