"Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny." Move past your hardships and prepare for the good things that come afterwards. Don't let your hardships jade you or blind you to the greatness that life is offering.
There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself. - Miyamoto Musashi / The Book of Five Rings