UG Krishnamurti: "What I am trying to say is that you must discover something for yourself. But do not be mislead into thinking that what you find will be of use to society, that it can be used to change the world. You are finished with society, that is all."
The so called self-realization is the discovery for yourself and by yourself that there is no self to discover. That will be a very shocking thing because it's going to blast every nerve, every cell, even the cells in the marrow of your bones.
UG Krishnamurti: "The only way for any one who is interested in finding out what this is all about is to watch how this separation is occurring, how you are separating yourself from the things that are happening around you and inside you.